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It may be that Settlers of Catan is the best game of all time, but I appreciated this post from Trevin Wax about low expectations.

Last summer, my parents introduced me and my wife to a European board game called The Settlers of CatanThis award-winning game has become wildly popular, especially among college students.

But Settlers is hard to play. The game is expensive. The rules are complicated. Each game requires more than an hour.

To do well, you must master the art of trade, strategic planning, anticipation of loss, and clever surprise. The game is difficult, but people can’t get enough of it.

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So last week I started this post in my drafts folder all about how I thought we were starting to see some real traction in the social media/internet world with relation to the non-geeks starting to use technology tools to communicate. But then Sat night happened… I cut back on the amount of blogs I read dramatically. I have done this once before, but didn’t touch the Children’s Ministry ones because I kinda felt I wanted to keep up with all of them… those days are over.

I made some tough (well not really compared to fighting in world war 1), decisions and just stopped following about half the CM blogs I used to (I follow them in Google Reader).

Having blogged for many moons now I have seen the landscape change and shift; in obvious ways like the rise of twitter, and in watching blogging grow, plateau and maintain.

But blogging still seems to be the way that great leaders can communicate, converse and contribute to a wider conversation – and spreading it through twitter.

So I wonder if the little niche of ministry to Children has reached its peak with blogging contributors and time will soon present a much more mainstream option?

The bottom line is that we should have FAR more people involved in contributing! Too many leaders doubt their experience and feel like they have nothing to say. Everyone has something to contribute.

Leader: Don’t waste your experience. Grow your influence.

You are already giving out to your team, just make that content go further, find a way to share! Believe me, as you give you will receive, pressed down, shaken together… you know the rest.

Oh Yeah, Balance.

BalanceI am heavily indebted to Rags and his post – How Leaders Should Spend Their Time

And by indebted I mean I am simply ripping him off and reposting it.

I am going to talk to our team about this and do a little bit of self-checking in this area… becuase owing to the current season I am getting a lot of ‘doing’ done. (Ha… doing done, I crack me up)

The leader should spend their time:

  • 1/3 Reflecting – The leader do the necessary reflection, thinking, reading, learning and planning
  • 1/3 Doing – The leader do the laborious work of doing after planning
  • 1/3 Developing – The leader spends time training and developing others

Anyway, have a look at your life and evaluate your balance!

More Than ‘Thanks’

The deepest craving of human nature is the need to be appreciated. – William James

This is an excerpt from When “Thanks” Isn’t Enough – 3 Steps to Gratitude that Empowers from the blog of Keith Ferrazzi.

…His favorite version of the Power Thank You was inspired by Heidi Wall, the co-founder of the Flash Forward Institute here in LA. It has three steps:

  1. Thank the person for something specific that he or she did for you. (It can also be something the person refrained from doing that would have hurt you.)
  2. Acknowledge the effort it took for the person to help you by saying something like: “I know you didn’t have to do _______” or “I know you went out of your way to do_______.”
  3. Tell the person the difference that his or her act personally made to you.

Mark writes, “If a person performs an extraordinary act of kindness or assistance and all you say is ‘thanks,’ you create a mirror neuron receptor gap because emotionally you’re not giving back as much as you received. Saying ‘thanks’ is better than nothing, but it’s not good enough” (emphasis mine).

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Where is your heart?

Ministry can be often intense.

You very infrequently look back at an experience and wish you were angrier… now maybe you think of a great comeback line, but that’s just being too clever too late. Unfortunately for my temper I admire the leaders who respond with grace in a situation. When some old pastor guy (using the term loosely) tells a story about the time when a group of angry congregation members/protesters/motorcycle gang, wrote a strongly worded letter/protested/punched while quoting scripture/burning an effigy of the pastor/killing bunny rabbits and they responded by taking them all our to lunch/praying and they took him out to lunch/getting all of them saved and one member turned out to own Harley Davidson and giving hundreds of bikes to the Church Men’s Ministry… well I always repent of my angry ways and promise to do better in the future.

  • Irregardless of circumstance does the Church have your heart?
  • Irregardless of leadership do the children have your heart?
  • Does time make the heart grow fonder?
  • Does time make your heart grow colder?

Guard your heart.

Earn your position

You can lead without a position. In fact position can take you away from leadership as responsibility grows.

Remarkable Leadership by Kevin Eikenberry presents a number of qualities that remarkable leaders must have. They…

  • Learn continually
  • Champion change
  • Communicate powerfully
  • Build relationships
  • Develop others
  • Focus on customers
  • Influence with impact
  • Act innovatively
  • Value collaboration and teamwork
  • Solve problems and make decisions
  • Take responsibility and have accountability
  • Manage projects and processes successfully
  • Set goals and support goal achievement

To be a great leader play up your  strengths and work on your weaknesses.

Earn the right to the position. You will probably be given a position before you have earnt it (even if you think you deserve it).

Leading notes from Brian

A while ago my boss Pastor Brian talked with Age Group and Service Pastors about leadership and consistency.

Here are some notes from that session, which was EXCELLENT and REALLY helpful, so much so that I just wrote those two words in All-Caps!

#1 Ebbs and Flows

In everything there are ebbs and flows so you should never get too moved by what you see seasonally and day to day. As a Church we do our biggest comparisons from year to year. We do not let ourselves get too fazed by the ebbs and flows but rather look at the trends.

#2 Dry Seasons

When you are facing a season where it is dryer so to speak, your response and body language is very important. Your responsibility as a leader is to look upbeat and full of life all the time as it affects those around you. Your body language tells a big story.

In Jelena Dokic’s recent game at the Australian Open the commentators where saying that she gave too much away to her opponent in her body language. She looked defeated by the way she held herself and her opponent could tell.

People follow consistency. No one wants to be a part of something that is heavy or a drag. By all means be realistic, but speak life too. It’s a great key to taking something forward.

#3 & 4 Ask Yourself the Hard Questions and Avoid Excuses

Leadership is about being able to turn something around, throw fresh vision and lead it forward. Excuses just justify something in our own mind. Take the challenge and be more determined to make it better next time. Life is about learning! Don’t lose your confidence because that has no reward and will not help anyone, but rather ask yourself what about my leadership do I have to change? Be accountable to people around you that you look up too or are your peers and ask them what you can work on or change. Ask ‘What can I do about ME?’ not about what I DO.

Everyone here has strengths but we tend to have blind spots where our weaknesses are. Some of us are too soft, too strong, too quiet, too moved, too compassionate etc. You need to have people that will show you these and challenge you.

You also need to have a Godly wisdom. You don’t want to challenge someone who needs an arm around them or put an arm around someone who needs a challenge!

#5 Up Turn Every Stone

Good leaders are a step ahead of the trends. You ask the questions before there asked. You lead from the front foot, not the back.

What stone have you left unturned? What else could you do or try to grow your service from the inside? It doesn’t work to just put a great preacher up the front. It’s what is happening in the engine rooms – that’s YOU! Talk to the key people in your service, your spouse, your peers and ask ‘what are we not doing that we could be doing that could give us a boost and take us forward’. How can we build our volunteers and get people to Church on time?

Always be looking for something new, a new way, a new initiative. You never arrive in leadership.

#6 Learn From Each Other

In a competitive environment you keep things to yourself to help better only your area of responsibilities. But in a team environment we want to help each other along. Share your wins, knowledge and great ideas with each other. Don’t hold onto it, pass it on and also remember just because something didn’t work for someone else doesn’t mean it won’t work for you.

Who is doing what they are doing really well? If I was you I would harass them and find out what they are doing and how!

#7 Consistency is Critical

We always want to be open to changing and adjusting the way we do things but constant change is never the answer. Change for the sake of change doesn’t change or grow anything. Sometimes all that lots of change will do is just build disloyalty and unfamiliarity in your teams. Our Church, big picture and long term has always been very consistent and not promoted lots of change. The best seasons are often found in the midst of lots of plodding and not always just after change. It’s often after consistency that you see the change.

#8 Set Yourself Obtainable Goals

Small obtainable goals are a key to growth. Take small steps and hold that ground then take another small step instead of big unobtainable steps. Ps Brian’s goal back in the early days of Hillsong Church was to grow 10 people every month. A small obtainable goal, but if each month you hold onto that and then take a another little step forward, over a year that is great growth.

Slowly claw your way ahead rather than sit there helplessly and going backwards. Everyone just has to grow a little each month remembering small obtainable goals. Also be specific when believing where you are going to get those people from. Eg one New person, one New Christian, one Recommitment, one Family member etc.

#9 Avoid Striving For Numbers

People do notice striving. If you’re not seeing the break through you are hoping for, striving won’t see it either. People respond to passionate, earnest, inspirational leadership not striving, number focused leadership.

It important you have faith in your capacity in those times that are hard and don’t panic!

#10 Don’t be Looking for the Next Opportunity

It doesn’t matter where you find yourself in Church life, you can always find an excuse OR you can understand that you can use what is in your hand to make the Church go forward.

The Children’s ministry is a big asset to the Church. Lots of Children bring their parents to Church and not the other way round.

You can guarantee you won’t be giving your best if your heart is somewhere else. You can be doing all the right things and dotting all your i’s, but ultimately you are less effective and not fulfilling your potential if your heart is somewhere else. You have a much better chance at doing well at what you’re doing now if your whole heart is in it. You have a much better chance at getting where you want to ultimately by doing well in what you have now. ITS GOT TO HAVE YOUR HEART! If you passionate about your area it will be flowing out of you. Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.  Speak it, think it, live it, have it in your heart. You will not do what you’re doing well if you’re just being ‘faithful’. Sometimes life is about dying to things.

Here is what you asked for

Following up on my last post about the ‘So You Think You Can… Lead Kids’ promo here at Church.

The website (hillsongkids.com/leadkids) is actually just a small part of the whole deal. More of a way to get more information and to put out some vision.

The big part of this is leaders simply inviting friends to be a part of the ministry.

Anyway, here’s how I put together the page.

[IMAGE] Kathryn Macdowall worked her photoshop magic on an image for the promo.

[MUSIC] Got a great member of our team Paul Stokes to put together the jingle and add in ‘Lead Kids’ in his home studio (You’re the man Paul!)

[VIDEO] Simply recorded the video on my own really cheap video camera at home and edited in iMovie (comes with every Mac). I turned it black and white because it looked classier/artier keeping it colour which looked like a cheap video recorder. Popped in the image and jingle at the beginning. Maybe about an hour from start to finish for editing. Uploaded to Vimeo with a free account… looks classier than Youtube.

[FORM] Free webform from Google Docs… this is a BRILLIANT tool. Puts all data input into a spreadsheet in Google Docs. If you look around online, similar tools can run pretty expensive! The form mirrors the invitation we gave out to all leaders. The Google option is not ideal, but the price is!

[WEBSITE] Simply created a new page on our site and had one of our web boys create a redirect (ie. hillsongkids.com/leadkids points to that page… watch your browser when you click on the link… it changes). This took a little bit of technical expertise on my part but nothing too fancy.

So there you have it, hope it gave you some ideas.

Its great for your wired young people, they can email the link, twitter it and connect with their friends in the same way they always do.

So You Think You Can… Lead Kids

We just started a bit of a leadership promo here at church for the kids department.

We are calling it ‘So You Think You Can… Lead Kids’. Encouraging all of our leaders to invite one other person to lead our awesome kids – Kind of a ‘Double Your Impact’ month.

Check out the page here: hillsongkids.com/leadkids

Now I did this site pretty much myself using free tools online and put them on our site. And the video was edited with iMovie, but comment below if you would like to know the process of the deal and with enough interest I can lay it all down for ya!

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Ingenuity empowers them

Great little article I stumbled over while researching on leadership.

Why I Believe in the Next Generation By Marty Cauley

I believe in the next generation for five reasons: ingenuity empowers them; injustice enrages them; challenges enthrall them; culture equips them; and hope inspires them. The future they face is not as bright as the one they should have inherited; but I know that they will rise to the challenge!

Love his thoughts on young people in leadership.

P.S. As far as the site goes… design matters. The site ain’t the prettiest at the ball… and there was no RSS feed. A great example of great content being hamstrung by design and old school ways (4 years ago) of distributing it. — Jus’ saying.

(Maybe some of the next generation Marty is talking about should get their hands on the site).

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