Your underwear

Control makes change exciting. Uncontrolled change is unpredictable.

Here’s the thing: We only like change when WE are the one making the change. When we are in control.

I even hate it when I read about a fellow blogger who I may know only from reading their work or sharing discount celexa online comments is changing roles or perhaps Churches. What is that all about?

It’s because I have zero control over the situation.

As a leader you are setting the direction and keeping the team going forward — so when you change something, it’s exciting. In those times (Andy Stanley talks about that moment you realise you the most powerful person in the room), that it is wise to think about the last time your leader changed something and how you felt — maybe out of the loop, or disorientated or even a little worried about the future.

Communicating change means:

  1. Communicating the WHY behind the WHAT
  2. Taking time to answer the little questions
  3. Reinforce the vision
  4. Empathise with your team, don’t dismiss it as an easy decision (even if it was for you… remember: you’re in control)
  5. Talk about what a blessing the ‘old way’ was to bring them this far
  6. Choose your battles — attitude and heart need to fought for, not the colour of the carpet (that will be a much easier change 6 months later)

Wondering about the post title? Just an example of something that should change often :)

5 Responses to “Your underwear”

  1. Sam April 15, 2010 at 9:12 am #

    That my friend will preach. Great post!

  2. jonathan April 15, 2010 at 10:07 am #

    I’ve heard it said that if everyone in the room knows it’s time for change, then you’re not the leader.

    These are some great thoughts!

  3. Henry Zonio April 16, 2010 at 3:08 pm #

    Ha! I just came across the title of your post… I just finished a post with underwear in the title, too. I wasn’t copying you… really… really….

    Nice post!

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